Perfectly Puzzled

Those moments whereby you stop and pause for a second cos you just saw something that made you reflect, I think it happens to everyone as they grow up. You find out who you are and what you want, then you realize that the people you've known forever don't see things the way you do. Basically it's like a wonderful memory and you keep it but at the end you find yourself moving on, well at this point you don't have a choice; It's perfectly normal, more like perfectly imperfect but the most important part is that you realized where you where, know where you stand and face where your heading. Nobody ever said reminiscing was a sin; With that I leave Y'all with one thing & one thing only "everything is perfectly puzzled, you're not asked to solve it until you figure out where to start-Then hopefully you'll find your way".

New Year (2012)

365 days gone & it's another year, everyone has high hope & super believes because they hope it'll be better than the last one. The funny part about everything is when someone tells me new year, new chapter. I actually think that's wrong because in a book no matter how many times the chapter changes, it always continues the story from the recent chapter. So I hope you know that what ever you do everyday inflicts on how everything will be in the future, so I urge you to take everyday of this year as a blessing & do whats right. well cheers to another year & another chance to get it right. I wish everyone a blessed & prosperous one.

For me it's a new year but still the same old GOAL!

Be you!

When I look around me  I don't only look at people, I mostly try to look into poeple. Today was one off those days where by I realized that the problem a lot of people around me are having is that they do not believe in their self. The way you talk, the way you walk, the way you smile, the way you even react tells a lot about you in a whole & I came to realize that most people prefer being others than standing out for their self. People always try to fit into the environment & I always asked my self why would you try to fit in when you were born to stand out? I mean what makes the other person better than you? Learn to look into the mirror & appreciate who you are. Mama always told me "Beauty comes within, if you don't believe in yourself then others will take you just for granted". The best advice I could give anyone is -Be you, find you & be happy with that, the rest will handle itself with time-

Positivity

Great people talk about Ideas, Average people talk about things, while small people talk about other people. I mean today everyone is doing the same, everyone follows the same trends. Nobody do things their way, what happened to originality? We need to stop promoting the same stuff, when you see negativity correct it with positivity. I noticed that  the wrong stuff really go far in our society meanwhile the little good ideas just go as far. We tend to forget that the castle we build today is the same place we shall dwell in tomorrow. With that last statement I urge everyone to start this second & start making a change. A wise man once said "Change is within" basically you can't expect the society to change if you do not take the first step. at this point I leave yall with this one question; don't you think it's time you went from small to at least average?

Words

I know after you see that image you start realizing that the words we use everyday could determine someone Else's tomorrow. People tend to forget that we live in an emotional world, a little phrase could change someone's mood from content to sober, that's why mama always say's think before you talk because you got power in you're tongue. Personally I think that words should be used as tools of communication & not as a substitute for action. With that said, I hope everyone will take what they say unto others into consideration. It takes little to change much.

Memories

Nothing last forever but memories do. I mean good memories, bad memories; does it really matter? at the end the whole point is that something happened, it ended & the memories is still there. I came to realize that the best part of life is when you think back you start appreciating the negative from the positive experiences. Personally I think that the best memories hurt the most cos you wish it lasted forever & everyday you stay hoping that you could replay that moment & press pause right before it ends. -Our memories are the only paradise from which we could never be expelled from.

Chameleon

Its not true that life is always bad. sometimes it goes just the right way, probably its going the right way right now & you just didn't realize it yet. The problem is that people think too much about the negative part of their life & forget to give credit to the positive part. People always think that life is awful & bad cos they don't get what they want but the truth is that sometimes life doesn't give you what you want cos that's not what you need. I learned to look at the bright side of life cos it moves really quick, before you know it you'll be stuck looking at the credits of nothing. Always remember "if its not good today there's a better possibility to make it better tomorrow so use today wisely".

R.I.P Steve Jobs, 2/24/1995 - 10/05/2011

Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone Else's life."
- Steve Jobs, 2/24/1955 - 10/05/2011

Contrast

I always believed that if you really want something you'll fight for it but then I remembered  that most things are just not meant to be. So at this point you end up questioning yourself what you should really do...all I could say is that if you made sacrifices, fought to make things work & you're still unhappy cos it's not working then maybe you should spend all that time with someone else that deserve the effort cos remember you also need to be happy. So with that; make you're conclusion & decision hoping that with time everything would make perfect sense. Always remember -"The best stuff to have are always the most complicated to deal with-" so buckle up before you think about facing the storm.

Think about it

Well it's been a long time i posted on this blog; but here I am again .... 

Today i realized something very important; everyday we wake up & we set goals for ourselves & as time runs out we try to reach those goals. At the end you realize that the goals you set for your self are there in other to reach you're dreams. Now the hard task is not to reach those goals but to pass the obstacles that come along the way while you try. I believe in one thing ; "our dreams is what makes life worth living despite the problems & bad situations, because every serious human being wants to rip the fruits of their labor. So now i urge everyone not to give up while trying, I mean why go half way & then turn back ... you might as well finish it.

-"Many of life's failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up"_

Positive point of view

Ever sit down & ask you're self , why be sad? why beat up you're self over an incident that happend? why ruin that good moment over a minor problem? why look ugly with a sad face when you could look good with happy face? why shade tears? why even worry? I mean look at it this way; you're reading this blog now cos you got internet, light, you're under a roof.. some of you are even craving on some chicken wings right now, meanwhile there are people out there who haven't seen light for days, years. They haven't eaten in forever; they don't even know what internet is but they still have the strength to laugh & make jokes. Instead of crying over a guy/girl that's already onto the next one or beacause you didn't get exactly what you wanted ,you should take that time & be thankful to God that you're not in that situation.Truth is that if you don't cherish what you have; you might end up loosing it, maybe then you'll understand. Appreciate everything about you're life till you can & Give thanks to God cos nothing is to little. -Nothing always becomes something_

A different perception

Dear gentlemen,

          Instead of jumping to conclusions, calling her all kind off unremarkable names, take that time out & listen to her, try to understand why she's the way she is because there's so much more to the story & you'd know if you cared or listened. Even though it might take a while, if you really care it won't matter because as you chip away that hard exterior you'll find the beauty that resides deep within her, As you climb that wall she built around her heart ... you'll see & appreciate everything that makes her incredible. If yall really want to kill the perception of "ALL MEN ARE THE SAME" then try to make a difference by being different, enough talk & more actions. And to all the ladies in this situation, learn not tho give a man the chance to hurt you, cos you are just as human as he is. If he doesn't take the time to find the inner you then he'll never take time to love you just enough.

                                                -Inspired by Shatrisse.

When people don't know what to do, they just open their mouth and start judging others.

Tango with experience

What is experience? well i personally believe that experience is the name everyone gives to their mistakes but after 18 years of living on this God given place called earth by man, I realized that obstacles are major parts to our everyday life, I mean think about it this way; if you face an obstacle today & overcome it with difficulty... Tomorrow when it appears again, you'll pass it easily . That's why i always tell people don't run from you're problems, face them & defeat them cos trust me you can't run forever it doesn't matter if you make a mistake while facing them & end up making the wrong decision. Sometimes the worst mistake could end up being a small opportunity. Anything could amount off a situation so learn to take you're chances.

Just another family

When you look at those pictures you'll think this is a family or very close group of friends, well you're very right. This is a team that ended up being more than just a team, more than friends, more than best friends, more than a family; we're almost like a connection & we need one another to function. Someone once told me that in other to succeed in what ever you're doing, you'll have to love the surroundings... many people misunderstand the word team, you just have to realize that the closer you're to you're next mate the better you might function because you know you have someone behind that looks up to you & not against you.

I learned different lesson from this group of people, but the most important one is that "coming together is a beginning, keeping together is progress but working together is success & that's because individually we are one drop but together we are an ocean."

One less summer

At the begining of every school year everyone is already looking out for the summer of the next year, boys can't wait to see girls walk on the street half naked once again & girls can't wait to get all the attention they need from thirsty boys due to their appealing outfits. People are already making plans for their summer even before winter fully hits, well one thing i learned is that you're summer never goes as planned. The friends you thought you'll see everyday are exactly the ones you'll never see, you end up getting close to people you never even considered to be part of you're life & in most cases you even end up meeting someone that could change you're life. Summer comes like a thief in the night, before you even think about opening you're eyes its already gone, people tend to think about summer like a strictly fun time but i believe its more of a creative period because fun can't last forever after a while what used to be fun becomes boring, that's exactly why most teens can't wait to get back to school even before the summer is over. Well here we go again, another summer has come & gone away, school is regularly on, workers are back on fully, back to the usual life & everyone can't wait for the summer of 2012!

First Making -Adam

One Famous Guy Once Said To Travel Is Better Then To Arvie, & I Was Like What?  Because I use To Think There Was Just One Path To Take To Get Where You Want To Be In Life. But If You Choose That Path It Doesn't Mean You Have To Bail On All The Outer Ones. I Realize That It Is Actually What Happens Along The Way That Counts.. The Stumbles, The Falls,The Friendships, The Relationships. Then You Realize that It's The Journey Not The Destination. You Just Got To Believing & Working Towards The Future Hoping that it Will Work Itself Out Like It's Suppose To.

I believe ...

One significant hit ♫

Strong out on compliments, overdosed on confidence is more like the definition of I (Robert Ubaka) . Truth is that 70% of yall teenagers believes in living life for the moment, in this case starting not to give a fu_k & stop fearing the consequences. well you ought to remember that the mistakes you make today, you'll somehow have to pay for it tomorrow or next.

Sometimes we always end up exaggerating things, but a wise man once said "if you don't  keep trying, you'll never know just how far you could go". Maybe some day it would be you're turn to say -Yea I got it like that.

When you loose faith in what ever you're doing, remind your self why you started cos reality is that making this danm HEADLINES ain't easy.